Use Vous instead of Tu until you are
asked to use the familiar form. The difference is the same as
using aap and tu in Hindi.
Similarly, do not use first names until you are invited.
For casual contacts with waiters or clerks, use Madame and Monsieur.
When entering greet with "Bonjour" or "Bonsoir".
Upon leaving Au Revoir is apt.
Handshakes are customary. However dont shake the person
up. Its considered impolite. The correct way is a light
grip, single quick shake. In a social gathering its the
cheek to cheek tradition that is followed.
PUNCTUALITY
ALERTS
Walk in meetings are rare. You have to take appointments for
business and social meetings. It is a good idea to be on time,
but a ten-minute delay factor is not considered disrespectful.
Accepting or declining an invitation must be attended to promptly
through mail or fax. Best time for meetings are 11:00 am or
3:30 p.m. Avoid scheduling appointments in the months of July
and August, practically all of France comes to a halt
this time of the year.
WORK
AND PLAY
Business hours are from 8:30 or 9:00 am and finish around 6:30
or 7:00 p.m. Lunch hours usually start at 1:00p.m and lasts
for about two hours. With the mandatory reduction of the workweek
to 35 hours, executives are getting additional vacation in lieu
of shorter working weeks (14 to 16 extra days every year). French
employees get five weeks of vacation and take at least three
in July or August.
KNOWLEDGE SPEAKS
Little knowledge is dangerous in France: so dont
give your opinion if your information is half-baked.
French people take immense pride in their history, culture and
politics. Its a good idea if you go armed with that knowledge.
Also,
be prepared to talk about your own heritage. Topics of discussion
usually revolve around food, art, music, philosophy, sports
and politics.
Avoid
discussions that include-
Political leanings
Napoleon: the French spirit is identified with what he stood.
Americanism: this is considered gauche and uncultured
Personal matters in the very first meeting.
FRENCH
DRESSING
Professional attire is expected. Being the fashion capital of
the world, you can expect nothing less than a perfect sense
of style. Whether they are wearing formal or casual attire,
visitors must show the same degree of attention to appearance.
A little tip: Be conservative and invest in well-tailored clothes.
Men are generally into dark suits, striped or solid shirts.
The ties can be contrasting but not too flashy.
BUSINESS
ATTITUDE
Good decisions take time. Unlike the Americans who act and react
quickly, the French take their own time to take decisions. Here
are a few pointers you must keep in mind when doing business
with them -
Always give your business card to people you meet for the first
time
Print your business card in two languages, one side in French
and the other in English
Maintain eye-contact at all times
Be formal. Casual behaviour is not appreciated
French are inquisitive. Its likely that they will try and unnerve
you during negotiations just to check whether you are aware
of every detail in the book. Do your homework well.
Their letter writing style is very formal and stylised.
BUSINESS
ENTERTAINMENT
The French like to know the people they do business with. They
spend valuable time over lunch or dinner getting to know their
prospective business clients or partners. A typical French meal
includes the Entrée, which is, a special type of salad,
pate and fish. The main course includes green salad and a cheese
dessert.
Business can be conducted during any meal, especially lunch.
Lunch can last two hours. Dinner is late. (8:00 or 9:00 p.m.)
When eating, keep both hands on the table at all times. Food
comes gradually; so don't fill up too soon. When finished, place
your fork and knife parallel across your plate. Cheese is served
at the end of the meal; don't put it directly on your bread,
and do not serve yourself twice.
Respect privacy. The French close doors behind them; you should
do the same. Knock and wait before entering.
GESTURES
Avoid the thumbs up sign, unlike the U.S.A where
it means OK, in France it stands for ZERO.
Never chew gum in public, its considered to be crude.
Slapping the open palm over a closed fist is vulgar
GIFTS
Don't give a business gift on a first meeting.
Avoid the too lavish and the too modest. Avoid gifts with your
company logo. Good taste is everything.
Don't include your business card with a gift.
Good gifts include books or music, as they show interest in
the intellect. Bring American best sellers, especially biographies.
The more complex the book, the better.
Bring flowers or fine chocolates or liqueur to the host and
present them before the party.
There are ways and there are ways, but certainly the French
corporate world does it in style. If you can imbibe the French
business practice, you can be reassured of being able to make
your way through with flying colours in the world of business.
O'! one more thing. "French Kiss" would be a nice
movie to watch before you get there. One can always pick up
a few more pointers. ;-)