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Westward Ho!

Off to the land of opportunity! Settling in a new country can be a rather unsettling experience. Not only do you have to adapt to the climate, but also to a new country and a new job. You’ll need to orient yourself to this shift right from the time you board your flight! Here’s something to make your transit smooth.

Welcome aboard!
On the flight, it pays to be courteous. Politely ask the stewardess for whatever you need (pillow, blanket, food, drink.) Don’t go overboard with the drinks. You’ll end up being either sick or drunk-both equally bad for in-flight travel. Remember to thank the stewardess at the end of the flight.

Greetings
Say “hi” to anyone who says “hi” (especially to the check-out staff at groceries.) Americans generally greet you, even if they don’t know you personally (so don’t get carried away if that attractive stranger in the elevator smiles at you and says hi”!) It’s just a way of life there.
Shake hands when you meet anyone, make eye contact, smile and introduce yourself.
While parting, you’ll find most people saying, “ it was great meeting you, take care of yourself.” Respond with “I will, you take care of yourself too…” Don’t be surprised if someone puts his hand on your shoulder when saying bye. It’s their way of showing concern and interest in you.

Corporate culture
Americans are very egalitarian and you can be on a first name basis with superiors, but first ask if it’s ok with them. If not, say, “Sure. I can call you Mr.XYZ”.

As for subordinates, be sure to tell them that they can call you by your first name. Even if you don’t tell them, they’ll probably go ahead anyway-so don’t look shocked. Observe how others greet or acknowledge other people, and follow suit.

In the American work culture, professionalism is highly valued. Be punctual for appointments (business or social). Be friendly, but firm when you’re dealing with co-workers or superiors. Don’t shirk work or take liberties and don’t forgo your privileges either. Americans value individuality. You’re not likely to score any points by being a “yes-man”! You get paid for what you contribute to the company. It’s a straight business deal-The company benefits from you, and vice versa. As far as dress is concerned, dress like everyone else, or one step (but not more) above. For women who’re more comfortable in a sari- go ahead. But be prepared for extra attention!

Treat women as equals. Never make any sexual remarks or innuendos to women employees or to your boss. Corporate America takes a very strict view of sexual harassment at the workplace.

Social etiquette
When you’re invited for a get-together, don’t take your spouse/kids with you, unless its mentioned in the invitation. Ask what you can bring. If the host doesn’t specifically ask for anything, take some cookies/chocolates/wine along. Even if you’re not very comfortable using a fork and knife, it’s better to learn how to. Eating with your fingers will project a shoddy image of you.

A few things to remember:

• In any fast food place, when you order, they will ask you something that sounds like "heretogo." They’re asking whether you’ll have it here or whether it should be packed!
• Never ask personal questions about age, salary, etc…
• Don’t treat Blacks/White/Other races better or worse, treat everyone the same. Treat labourers/janitors, blue collars workers with the same respect as you would treat others.
• Don't ask for a rubber when you want an eraser. Rubber means a condom!
• The way American women dress is no indication of their morality. Treat them with the same respect that you would give Indian women (assuming you do that back home!)
• When eating out, make it a point to ask for small portions or you’ll have a tough time ploughing through the huge serving.
• If you ever keep anyone waiting, apologise (even to a stranger who’s kept the elevator waiting so that you can get into it.)
• Don’t gasp if you’re offered a buffalo sandwich! It just means that it is from Buffalo, New York.
• Americans like vibrant people. So be enthusiastic and smile a lot!
• Even though Americans may treat you very casually, it’s better if you maintain some degree of formality with them.
• If Americans show curiosity about your country or culture, be prepared to answer their questions patiently.

Americans are generally easygoing people. So enjoy your trip and have a great time!